“I am happy because you are unhappy”
I read this in “my paper”, I find it an interesting article.
It says many a time, when a relationship failed, one party will tend to follow through how the other party is getting on with their life. Whether has he found a new girlfriend, living a good life, etc etc.
Its human nature to want to follow through how the other party is getting on with their life. The demon inside ourselves will tend to hope that he will not be leading a good life when he left you, somehow this makes you feel better. Somehow..
I used to feel this way, I used to want to prove to him that I am in fact living a much interesting and better life ever since he left me. I want him to regret the decision he once made. But I begin to realize that I am living my life based on his, I am living my life not for myself but proving to him. I begin to lose myself in this struggle of proving game.
I soon let go, I live my life and not for anybody else. I dictate what I want in my life. What is over is already over, I should feel happy for him if he found a better love and succeed in what he hopes for.
Really, truly I hope the best for him..
I read this in “my paper”, I find it an interesting article.
It says many a time, when a relationship failed, one party will tend to follow through how the other party is getting on with their life. Whether has he found a new girlfriend, living a good life, etc etc.
Its human nature to want to follow through how the other party is getting on with their life. The demon inside ourselves will tend to hope that he will not be leading a good life when he left you, somehow this makes you feel better. Somehow..
I used to feel this way, I used to want to prove to him that I am in fact living a much interesting and better life ever since he left me. I want him to regret the decision he once made. But I begin to realize that I am living my life based on his, I am living my life not for myself but proving to him. I begin to lose myself in this struggle of proving game.
I soon let go, I live my life and not for anybody else. I dictate what I want in my life. What is over is already over, I should feel happy for him if he found a better love and succeed in what he hopes for.
Really, truly I hope the best for him..
