I had been thinking through this recently.
I have encouraged a friend to make his point across, to confess his feelings, to make a stand. He did, but the outcome is not what he wants, even though he is well prepared for the worst.
How often do we prepared for the worst but yet still feel disappointed when the worst really happened? Well, I can say almost all the time. We are just contradicting ourselves through the whole process. Even though people always said prepared yourself for the worst and you won’t feel utterly disappointed if it really happens, blah blah blah. I think its bullshit. As a matter of fact, we can’t deny that we very much wanted the good to happen.
After the whole issue, I questioned myself again; am I right to encourage my friend to confess, would he rather live in the unknown as compared to knowing the truth? Seriously I could not get a right answer. Maybe it’s good that he knew the answer and move on or maybe he would rather stay in his wonderland. It’s up to individual to judge what is the best choice. I can’t decide for him but I guess I have tried my best to give him an overall picture of the whole situation.
One who told me you will have to jump into the swimming pool to know how deep is it, by standing outside the pool, you will never know how deep but to keep on guessing.
Well, shall we start today to jump in and see how deep the pool is? (,”)
I have encouraged a friend to make his point across, to confess his feelings, to make a stand. He did, but the outcome is not what he wants, even though he is well prepared for the worst.
How often do we prepared for the worst but yet still feel disappointed when the worst really happened? Well, I can say almost all the time. We are just contradicting ourselves through the whole process. Even though people always said prepared yourself for the worst and you won’t feel utterly disappointed if it really happens, blah blah blah. I think its bullshit. As a matter of fact, we can’t deny that we very much wanted the good to happen.
After the whole issue, I questioned myself again; am I right to encourage my friend to confess, would he rather live in the unknown as compared to knowing the truth? Seriously I could not get a right answer. Maybe it’s good that he knew the answer and move on or maybe he would rather stay in his wonderland. It’s up to individual to judge what is the best choice. I can’t decide for him but I guess I have tried my best to give him an overall picture of the whole situation.
One who told me you will have to jump into the swimming pool to know how deep is it, by standing outside the pool, you will never know how deep but to keep on guessing.
Well, shall we start today to jump in and see how deep the pool is? (,”)
