想要就要争取

最近朋友对我说她对某某有好感。
我的第一个反应是 "好啊! 加油加油!"
她的回答竟是" 怎么办? 我该什么做呢?"

和她说了半天，我发现她对自己没信心，什么事都还没做，她就 已经 filled her mind with all the negative thoughts. She seemed to be able to "know" what will happen if she does this or if she does that. Haha.. seems like she can tell the future ah...

I can only do that much by encouraging her what she should do and to be more confident of herself. The rest of it will all depends on herself.

一个人如果对自己没信心，什么事都不会做的好。
对自己有信心已经是成功的一半了，不是吗?

希望她能争取她所要的幸福。 。